MY TURN
I'm a U.S. Congressman. I Hid a Big Secret for a Long Time
The mere thought of having to make these decisions sent a surge of even greater anxiety through me.
I Drank Alcohol Every Day—Quitting Made Me See the Damage
The problem with mommy wine culture is that it's perpetuated by us.
I Quit Stripping for a Normal Job. Now I Might Go Back
I wanted to choose my mental health over money. But after quitting, I still felt stuck.
I Felt Fat and Ugly so Lost 30lbs. It Didn't Solve My Problems
I was standing in my parents' kitchen one morning and had an almost out-of-body experience.
Disney's 'Progressive' Casting Is Ruining My Career
It just blew me away. How could they think that casting was a good idea?
He Asked a Tactless Interview Question About My 10-Year Resume Gap
Had it just been suggested that, perhaps, I'd wasted 10 years of my life "not doing anything?"
My Student Loan Costs Me $700 a Month. I Need Forgiveness
My income to debt ratio is so high because of my student loans, it weighs my credit down.
The Pit Bull Locked Eyes With Me. Then Clamped My Throat
I looked at the paramedic, and he was in shock.
I'm a Gay Army Officer—Queer Troops Must Fight Back
I enlisted in the Army in 2017, shortly after the devastating Pulse nightclub shooting.
I Made $50k a Week as a Drug Dealer—Until My World Collapsed
I would soon land in a new world, far from what's seen on Hollywood's big screen.
I've Been Pregnant Ten Times. I Lost Seven Babies
I was asked many times: "Why do you keep trying? Haven't you lost enough? Aren't you scared it will happen again?"
I Was Raised on Barbie. Then One Radical Woman Turned Me Against Her
I saw Barbie as a symbol of my mother's world.
I Was Dating a Charming Man. An Unexpected Text Changed Everything
I had an odd gut feeling about him. My intuition told me that something was off.
Online Dating in My 40s Was Hell. One Intense Moment Changed Everything
I was 39 years old when we initially separated, and there were two messy years before the divorce was finalized.
I Spent the Weekend With a Notorious Teen Killer
I'd had a nightmare about her eyes. Those dark black shark eyes looking at me.
I Experienced Burnout From Being a Black Principal in America
I was wrestling, yet again, with the reality of being Black in America. I was exhausted by existing.
Our Vacation to Mexico Started With a Horrifying Accident
Is this our fault? Of course it is, we're her parents.
Our Dad Directed 'The Wicker Man'. It Tore Our Family Apart
I figured out that I'd spent, by then, a grand total of 72 days with my father in all my twelve years.
I Thought I'd Met My Dream Man. One Mortifying Date Ruined Everything
He ate voraciously, seemingly famished from the effort it took to ruin my evening.
I Was Part of 303 Creative's Case. I Back Gay Marriage—but SCOTUS Is Right
I filed a friend-of-the-court brief in Lorie's case, but not because I agree with her stance on marriage.
I'm a Graduate. There's a Diversity Solution Colleges Will Never Tell You
Many Asian parents followed the same playbook. Now, their children are being lectured on how we're all the "same."
I'm Giving $100 Million to Psychedelics Research
Back in 2018, I was in tremendous mental, emotional and even physical anguish. I didn't know why